I went to a Relief Society activity (the LDS women's organization monthly event) and I was really inspired. The topic was about finding balance in our lives and the woman speaking is an expert. She said that most of us can do 4 jobs. If you're good at time management you can do 5. If you're really really good at time management you'll max out at 6. That's it. That's all you can expect to handle. 6 jobs. (So of course I'm sticking with 6, because I'm stubborn like that)
I came home and listed out my jobs. I chose the same top three jobs as the speaker:
1. Daughter of God
2. Wife
3. Mother
And then I listed out the remaining jobs in no particular order:
-Housekeeper
-Blogger
-Chef
-Interior Designer
-Olive the Things CEO
That adds up to 8. Two jobs too many. Obviously I have to keep housekeeper and chef. I would love to hire out my cleaning, but I'm not making enough money with my other jobs to do that yet. . . maybe one day! (hey, a girl can dream!!) That left only one space left. And I can't drop my new etsy shop. So we have. . .
1. Daughter of God
2. Wife
3. Mother
4. Chef
5. Housekeeper (since I work from home, I have to clean before I can sew)
6. Olive the Things CEO
I'm not going to stop blogging or trying to make my home a more beautiful place, but those will have to be relegated to hobby status. Something I do for fun in my free time, if I have free time :)
I don't value being busy, I love my down time. But I do have a lot of things I'm passionate about and so it's easy to fill my time up so much that I don't have any fun and I'm nothing but stress. I still stress about this blog, about what will happen if I don't try and post somewhat regularly. I have got to get over that! It was a great hobby with a newborn and I'm sure it will be there for me with my next kid too.
And I love decorating, but I'm going slowly as our budget permits. Sometimes we have to pay for boring things like new blinds, but I know it will get there eventually. (I do have a really cheap fun project I just completed for my living room I CANNOT wait to share!)
I'm excited to put more energy into those six jobs as I learn to let go of other things in life. It's hard to say no, but I'm getting better and better all the time.
What would be your 4, 5 or 6 jobs?
I loved this post! Thank you for sharing! :)
ReplyDeleteThanks!!
DeleteI've always considered my blog a hobby... something I can give up if I don't have enough time... whereas I can't give up being a daughter of God, a wife or a mother. This is an interesting post!!
ReplyDeleteYeah those three were my non negotiables. But I like thinking of motherhood as something separate from cooking or cleaning.
DeleteThat's an interesting topic!
ReplyDeleteI guess mine would be 1) daughter of God, 2) mom, 3) wife, 4) English teacher, 5) homemaker (I consider housekeeper and chef one job)
blogging is just a hobby as well
Yes I thought about putting cleaning and cooking into one. . . but right now with two kids home all day cooking is such a huge job (if swiping pb and honey on bread is considered cooking!) that I knew I'd have to separate them if I'm being honest with myself.
DeleteGirl I am so there. Blogging, as much as I love it, just isn't my priority right now.
ReplyDeleteA time and season, right?
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