Tuesday, August 12, 2014

Six Jobs

 I went to a Relief Society activity (the LDS women's organization monthly event) and I was really inspired.  The topic was about finding balance in our lives and the woman speaking is an expert.  She said that most of us can do 4 jobs.  If you're good at time management you can do 5.  If you're really really good at time management you'll max out at 6.  That's it.  That's all you can expect to handle.  6 jobs.  (So of course I'm sticking with 6, because I'm stubborn like that)

I came home and listed out my jobs.  I chose the same top three jobs as the speaker:

1. Daughter of God
2. Wife
3. Mother

And then I listed out the remaining jobs in no particular order:

-Housekeeper
-Blogger
-Chef
-Interior Designer
-Olive the Things CEO

That adds up to 8.  Two jobs too many.  Obviously I have to keep housekeeper and chef.  I would love to hire out my cleaning, but I'm not making enough money with my other jobs to do that yet. . . maybe one day! (hey, a girl can dream!!)  That left only one space left.  And I can't drop my new etsy shop.  So we have. . .

1. Daughter of God
2. Wife
3. Mother
4. Chef
5. Housekeeper (since I work from home, I have to clean before I can sew)
6. Olive the Things CEO

I'm not going to stop blogging or trying to make my home a more beautiful place, but those will have to be relegated to hobby status.  Something I do for fun in my free time, if I have free time :)

I don't value being busy, I love my down time.  But I do have a lot of things I'm passionate about and so it's easy to fill my time up so much that I don't have any fun and I'm nothing but stress.  I still stress about this blog, about what will happen if I don't try and post somewhat regularly.  I have got to get over that!  It was a great hobby with a newborn and I'm sure it will be there for me with my next kid too.

And I love decorating, but I'm going slowly as our budget permits.  Sometimes we have to pay for boring things like new blinds, but I know it will get there eventually.  (I do have a really cheap fun project I just completed for my living room I CANNOT wait to share!) 

I'm excited to put more energy into those six jobs as I learn to let go of other things in life.  It's hard to say no, but I'm getting better and better all the time. 

What would be your 4, 5 or 6 jobs?

8 comments:

  1. I loved this post! Thank you for sharing! :)

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  2. I've always considered my blog a hobby... something I can give up if I don't have enough time... whereas I can't give up being a daughter of God, a wife or a mother. This is an interesting post!!

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    1. Yeah those three were my non negotiables. But I like thinking of motherhood as something separate from cooking or cleaning.

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  3. That's an interesting topic!

    I guess mine would be 1) daughter of God, 2) mom, 3) wife, 4) English teacher, 5) homemaker (I consider housekeeper and chef one job)
    blogging is just a hobby as well

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    1. Yes I thought about putting cleaning and cooking into one. . . but right now with two kids home all day cooking is such a huge job (if swiping pb and honey on bread is considered cooking!) that I knew I'd have to separate them if I'm being honest with myself.

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  4. Girl I am so there. Blogging, as much as I love it, just isn't my priority right now.

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