Friday, October 3, 2014

But I like to try

My best selfies always include a kid.
So for a few days last month, I think everyone on my facebook feed had shared the Colbie Caillat video, Try.  And I kind of like the message. . . As a feminist I don't think that a persons' self worth or strength should come from their looks.  But what if I like to put a little makeup on?  I know that I'm still a worthwhile person while in my pajamas, but I feel more awake and happy if I'm dressed. 

And in the same way, I feel better about my day when I have a little makeup on.  (I should mention that I have such natural dark circles around my eyes that as a kid people often asked me if I had a black eye.  So I'm not just trying to look pretty, I'm trying to not look like an abuse victim)  I have a mirror in the kitchen above my dining room table.  When I'm feeding my children their meals and I see my reflection in the mirror, it's nice to feel put together and healthy looking. 

Wearing makeup and doing my hair and putting on clothes isn't about being a 1950's housewife, but if it helps me feel away and happy, I'm going to keep on "trying".
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  1. Brooke @ Silver LiningOctober 3, 2014 at 1:28 PM

    I totally agree! I feel much more confident and productive when I make sure to put a little makeup on in the mornings and do my hair.

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    1. KimberlyOctober 3, 2014 at 1:30 PM

      Yep, every time I try and stay in my pajamas and get some cleaning done, it never works. I'll get a lot more done after a shower, regardless of the time! :)

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  2. Tayler MorrellOctober 3, 2014 at 3:38 PM

    I feel more awake and confident when I put makeup on and get dressed.

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    1. KimberlyOctober 5, 2014 at 1:36 PM

      Yes, for me it's more about being productive than looking hot. :)

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